I am astranged from my adult twin nephews but I dreamed I took them to get their haircut. One of them got a good haircut but the other didn't. I told the Barbour to take the top knot off his hair and it stood up like bird feathers! The person that cut it instanted that's the way it should be. We disagreed but I got in line to pay. When I was next to pay the just walked away and wouldn't take my money.
In this dream, your estrangement from your adult twin nephews may symbolize a feeling of disconnect or distance in your relationship with them in waking life. Taking them to get a haircut suggests an attempt to connect with them and perhaps improve this relationship.
The differing haircuts may represent different aspects of their personalities or the differing ways in which you perceive them. The fact that one of them ended up with a good haircut and the other with a bad one, may indicate a feeling of favoritism or unfairness towards one of them, or perhaps a feeling that you are not able to provide equal guidance or support to both of them.
The disagreement with the barber about the haircut and the Barbour's insistence that it was the right way may also reflect a conflict or a difference of opinion regarding your approach to your nephews in reality.
The fact that the barber refused to take your money when it was time to pay may suggest a feeling of rejection or disregard, which could symbolize a fear of how the relationship with your nephews may turn out if you attempt to intervene or get too involved. Overall, this dream may be highlighting your desire to connect with your nephews but also might be expressing a fear that you will not be able to give them the guidance and support that they need.